Friday, July 21, 2006

Updates...

Today is Nani and Poppa's 46th wedding anniversary, so first I will give my congrats to them. They are spending their day and evening at Harrah's Casino in Topeka and I wish them all lot of fun and big winnings.

I spent last evening with them at Isle of Capri Casino and that was a lot of fun, we played for hours, had dinner and played more. Nani and I did not arrive home until 1 am.

Tonight is a night for the kids and me and we will have a lot of fun. We will have a movie night, a board game and snacks. They seem to never be here so I decided to have a night with them. Last night they were with my sister and swam all night. They haven't even touched their pool this week, with the weather so hot the pool has turned into a hot tub.

Eric will be in KC around the 15th of August to visit for a week or so which will be great. I have been missing him pretty bad for the past week and cannot wait to see him. We decided that date because Nani and Poppa will be out of town for 3 weeks and I would rather not be alone here for that long. Chip will be starting school around that time and it will give Eric a chance to see what she will be learning during the year.

I just wish everything would have turned out the way we planned when we first moved and then we wouldn't be living like this. The kids and I should be with Eric and not have to feel like something bad will happen if we stay. I just want to be able to live with my husband and be happy where we are and now that cannot happen in Florida. I refuse to stay there, my kids are so happy being around the family that loves them unconditionally and I am not going to make them unhappy anymore. I want them to have what I had growing up, the strong family bond that has made each and everyone of us who we are today. I don't care what anyone says or thinks, Sand tore our family apart and I guess in a way she won, this is what she wanted for Eric and me, the only difference is she does not have my kids and she never will. She can keep calling Eric and wanting him to do this and that and demanding info from him but I will never let him go either, we may not live together right now, but we are still very much in love and that is the way it will stay. Our marriage is strong and so are we!

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I cant stand it anymore!!! No one but yourselves broke your family apart. You chose to move not mom. She never called or visited from the day you told her not to. You are both selfish and immature parents. It is unbelievable that you and my brother would shut out his whole family because you had an issue with his mother. You will take, take, take and take some more so that nobody will have contact with him. I sincerely hope you never need someone other than your family to help you. Our mother has been as nice as possible to you and you do nothing but put her down. How many times has she helped you? I know what you are saying (none) You are soooooooooo wrong and you know it. I remember when no one would help you in KC that's why you moved. She was the one to take care of your kids while you went out. Joey you have no scence of what family is. You can disagree with your family and it is ok but cant forgive mom for something she has said (not done). I am sick of it!!!! You are not the only one to blame. Eric is as much or more to blame. Mom loves and cries about those kids and one day they will realize it. I know and hope you will change this website so I will no longer have any knowledge of what you or Eric are doing. He is no longer a part of my life!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't believe he is allowing your bullshit to be published. My only wish is Eric actually read this ,which I doubt. He will never hear from me again since I have not heard from him in over a year. Good luck and please dont allow me access to your lies. Shannon (couldnt sign in any other way.)

Izzy, Emmy 'N Alexander said...

hi joey, hope all is well. you haven't posted in awhile, hope you do soon. I check everyday. Hope to see you soon. xoxox Alisha